The purpose of this web site is to provide a place of healing. The weight of past choices can become unbearable and learning to lessen the burden will bring about a healing. You will be offered a different perspective and guidance to facilitate your journey toward a healthier place.
It is recommended that the first healing step one takes is suspending one's belief in an eye-for-an-eye retaliation especially as it is directed toward the self. In other words, “I must punish myself to the extent [and usually far beyond the break even point] that I have caused or been responsible for others to suffer – because I deserve it!” As long as one maintains this belief then the path to self-forgiveness remains forever hidden.